The Power Game

I want to talk to you about something I call The Power Game. Try to think of Sex as a dance. In ballroom dancing, there is always two partners. But only one of them is the leader. And guess what? The leader is always the man. When both partners try to lead, it just doesn’t work. That’s why a good male dancer knows how to lead and a good female dancer knows how to follow. I want you to watch the video below. It’s Argentine Tango. It’s a dance, obviously, and I want you to watch how the man leads the dance. Now, the woman has space to move and express herself, at times she will do solos and she will be the center of attraction. Even at times, she may take the lead, be in control, be in power. But then the man, the leader, takes back the lead. He takes back the control, the power. Argentine tango, in my opinion, is the perfect example of how a real man should act with a sexual partner. It will also show you how to express passion and how to touch a woman like a man.

Of course, I don’t expect you to become an Argentine tango dancer. But it’s all in the attitude. Touch your woman with passion, always remain in control, take the lead.

The concept behind, is that a woman needs to feel like a real woman to really let go and enjoy sex as much as she can. And she needs to be in presence of a real man in order to feel like a real woman. And to be a real man is to be strong, to be the leader, to be in control, to lead the power game. She needs guidance and reassurance and that’s your job to give her that as a man. So keep that in mind when you touch her, when you kiss her, when you embrace her, when you make love to her. You are in control. Give her space, give her some control, but always take it back!

Comments

  1. Frank | October 1st, 2009 | 8:07 pm

    I like the concept. I guess the 80% 20% rule would apply in the power game as well. 80% man 20% woman.

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